Top 3 Men to avoid in this urban jungle of singles…

Ladies, next time you’re out dating and searching for Mr Right, look out for these 3 types….

1. Mr Charismatic – This is the man who will sweep you off your feet within 24 hours of meeting him. Men and women alike are all strangely drawn to his aura. They might not always be the most good-looking, but something about them makes women fall flat at their feet. They will make U feel like a million bucks, make U feel oh so special, until alas, U realise that he says the same thing to almost all the women he meets, buys them almost all the same gifts (e.g. imitation Tiffany pendants) and calls them “very good friends”. Be very worried when he says so-and-so, we are just good friends because U’re going to be the next “good friend” even though you are dead certain that U meant something special to him. Mr Charismatic is also often Mr “I’m not ready to commit”. Why? Because they are having so much fun charming girls into falling for them and watching them fight for their attention! Which man would want to give that up? So if U ever encounter Mr Charismatic, listen carefully and observe him, don’t let the momentary chemistry blind you to his well camouflaged but overwhelming flaws….

2. Mr Desperado – This breed of men are usually very nice men who have not had much success with women. They want to settle down and have kids. A rare breed especially since alot of single men aren’t keen on settling down. But the problem is, they just want to settle down, and they don’t care who they settle down with, they are in love with the idea of marriage, not necessarily with you. This is the man who will call you everyday to find out what U are doing (even of you’re not a couple), talk about long term plans like where they would like to live with you within the first few dates. If you’re desperate for a husband, then good for you if U meet Mr Desperado, but the marriage might not last because he’s only in love with the concept of marriage. But if U’re a self-respecting woman, run…fast!

3. Mr Bisexual- Mr Bisexual is the scarier version of Mr Charismatic. He obviously needs to have Mr Charismatic’s charm and way with people in order to attract members of both sexes. How else can you identify him? He’ll often be very well dressed, very gentlemanly, quite touchy-feely, some are shy to admit they are attracted to the same sex. Some bisexuals I know say they are very open, which means, they like a variety of men and women. I have nothing against bisexuals, but unless U are into menage-o-trois or threesomes, do U really want to be jealous of your boyfriend’s gay partner? Worse, can you imagine having sex with someone who has been somewhere else with his member? Ewwww…..

So ladies, good luck!